Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago.

she said she found messages I deleted from a year ago? Now first is it possible to check myspace deleted messages, does anyone know? And two, this was way before we "officially" were together. During the time before this, she would say that we are just friends. Now when we did start to get serious I left all that alone. Is she right to be mad about this when she is telling me that we are just friends with benefits? Im not sure how or why she is mad. I havent been with anybody else, so why is she mad and what do i do? She is the love of my life and I want to be with her, but she is really mad at me. What do I do?

Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago. she is mad

Yes you can see deleted messages on myspace. Click on the "trash" can icon and there they will be. You must delete them from the trash too.

Sometimes people like to think that they person they loved never flirted or slept with or loved anyone before they arrived. It is not realistic of course. Your girlfriend has reacted irrationally and does not have a legitimate reason to be mad since what she read was in the past and the terms of your relationship were friends with benefits.

Give her time to calm down, but I would not recommend jumping through hoops. You can apologize she was hurt by what she read, yet she must also understand that it took place before you stepped into a commitment together.

You have learned a valuable lesson about women: we know where to look and if given the chance can't resist the temptation most of the time.

Good Luck

Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago. she is mad

To my best knowledge there isn't a way to check deleted messages from that far ago, unless she is a skilled hacker. Even if there was a way, you two weren't together in that time officially. She has no right to be mad at you. I actually think that she's being incredibly controlling of who you are %26amp; who you were.

You say that she's calling you two FwBs. I think that you two need to have a serious talk together to find out what you both really want. Ask her to show you those messages that she found %26amp; what in specific made her angry. If she can't (or won't) show them to you, I'd say that you should really start thinking about dumping her. This girl sound REALLY psycho %26amp; it also sounds like she's playing lots of games with you. It's not worth it.

Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago. she is mad

NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR PASSWORD. It is your space for a reason, tell her to get her own. No she doesnt have a right to get mad at you. What happens when they are not involved with you is none of their business. She is being very insecure. And NO she cannot look at deleted messages, I think she is trying to bluff you into telling her things. Why are you allowing yourself to be used, I noticed you said she calls you friends with benefits, but you say she is the love of you life.

Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago. she is mad

You trusted her enough to give her your private password and she repayed that trust by snooping around in your account and recovering and reading deleted text that was none of her damn business.

Then she has the nerve to confront you about it.

Do yourself a favor, think long and hard on what I am about to say.

If she acts like this now, how will she act when her name is on your bank account and it will cost you a house, and then some to dump her. DUMP HER NOW !!!!!

P.S. Change your password ASAP.

Recently I gave my girl my password to myspace. She said she found stuff I deleted from a year ago. she is mad

thats the mistake you made you should've never gave it to her cuz girls will turn into detective pretty fast and have ways of putting things together and becoming very mad, bad move on your part