Saturday, November 21, 2009

Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

this is gonna sound so pathetic but i swear it isnt......so i met this girl on myspace: she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, it seems like we would have a lot in common, and she doesnt live too far away. well anyway like 3 weeks ago i messaged her and asked if she'd like to hang out sometime and she said yes. but i was busy for the next few weeks so we never talked about a day. i asked her again to hang out, but this time she seems to be avoiding answering me. also, since i added her, she doesnt answer all of my comments...but i figure that if she didnt like me or thought iwas annoying that she would just take me off her friends list, but she hasn't. for 10 pts. answer all of these questions...do u think she just isnt interested? (she hasnt deleted me remember)...how come she has changed her mind about hanging out?....should i ask her why shes avoiding me? should i just keep asking to hang out? ...i didnt ask her out, it was just to hang out..and she doesnt have a boyfriend



Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

Does she know the reason why you didn't set a date to hang out? If she doesn't then that would explain a lot about how she's acting. My friend recently pulled some bullshit similar to this and I can tell you I was a little mad but it was worse than this.



You can explain your reason for not being able to hang out and then see if she wants to set a definite date to hang out.



Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

well just ask her y she is avoiding you, youll never know where things might go from there



Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

Maybe she feels that it is all just a joke tell her to meet you some place local well known like to a movie and out to some place hot in your area if she doesn't come ask her why if she has no reasonable excuse then drop her and move on with life and maybe she is interested in you but just doesn't no what to say anymore...SMILE I want my ten points haha joking I couldn't care less whatever best for you and answer some of my questions...



Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

Blame it on nerves.



.Not to mention common sense.



.*Look she's probably interested in you and I don't doubt that. But at the same time maybe she was in fact interested in meeting you at the time, but after you hadn't talked to her for awhile (when you were busy) maybe that gave her time to think about it twice, and now she's not so sure it's a good idea. Just because of all the news stories about Myspace kidnappings etc. and just the dangers of meeting people offline in general.



.~Now why she's not talking to you? I am not really too sure.



.Maybe she just doesn't know how to nicely tell you she doesn't want to meet you.?. And she doesn't want to tell you why b/c she's embarassed?..



.You have to look at all the possibilities here.



...Anyways I think for right now you should just back off.



.She already knows that you would like to hang out with her and meet her sometime.



%26gt;Now what you can do is send her one last message...and just say something like:



"Hey long time no talk?! Well anyways I'm assuming you've been pretty busy lately, but I just wanted to let you know that I still would like to hang out with you and meet you sometime. But if you're not interested...please feel free to let me know, I'd appreciate it. Well I guess I will talk to you later or something....bye now."



.And after you write her one last message, don't write her anymore comments, messages, emails, etc. NONE!!!



.When she is good and ready she will come around to you.



....so chill for now.



.She'll come around soon enough, and if not, then oh well.



.Call it a loss.



...good luck.



Myspace girl problem maybe (again with more detail)?

Several possibilities here, she may be busy like you were, she may have met someone of interest and has been preoccupied, something could have happened with a family member, could be internet problems, life problems.



You might tell her you are going to go out on a certain day like, "Hey, I'm thinking about going out to (place) on Saturday, and was wondering if you'd like to go with me?" If she doesn't respond to that...give it a few weeks, ask one more time..."sorry i missed you last time, I'd like to take you out if you're interested" Something along those lines. If no response after this, then it's not looking good. Good luck. ;)

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