Should I be mad about my boyfriend's "girl" friend on myspace?

Today I went into my boyfriends myspace to see if a message I had sent went through and I happen to see some messages he was exchanging with some girl he used to go to high school with. I'm 19, hes 21, been together 5 years by the way. I'm not gonna lie, I took a look because I was curious. Basically, he messaged her first saying he found her on another friend's myspace, then they got to talking about school and how she saw him at the mall one time and he was with me and she was with her bf so they didnt say hi, then his last message to her says that she should say hi no matter who he is with next time and gave her his phone number if she wants to call him or whatever. Man, I got sooo pissed after reading this and it made it seem like I didn't matter and he's just freely giving his damn number out to people. So I dont know if I should make a big deal out of this and if I do bring it up, how do i handle the situation? It's like he talked without mentioning me...help!

Should I be mad about my boyfriend's "girl" friend on myspace?

u can start talking to ur ex bf too..this man seems to be bit "cheat!!!!"

Should I be mad about my boyfriend's "girl" friend on myspace?

My Space is known for causing so much relationship problems. I myself am a jealous person and that is something I definitely wouldn't go for. An x is an x for a reason. Why would they both want to re-connect? I would talk to your boyfriend if I were you and tell him that you don't appreciate him giving out his number like that. You can also say "how would you like it if my x left comments like that on my page and I gave him my number" Trust he wont like it he should see things a bit more your way. Don't scream or go overboard about it, just talk to him and let him know that it disappointed you and that you expected better.

Should I be mad about my boyfriend's "girl" friend on myspace?

I can relate to the Myspace incident. That site is where I met my last boyfriend. It upset me to see the number of female friends on there that sent him messages and comments. It is hurtful and painful to have the ability to see what he says to them and their reply. It leaves your imagination wild to roam in painful waters. I still have a Myspace account but I have recently thought about deleting it so I would no longer waste my precious time looking at anyone's profile. My cousin calls it "the devil". There is no other place where you can do things like you can there. You can spend hours looking at your partners "private lives" and see inappropiate comments and pictures sent to them by "strangers" in some cases. If you have a shared computer you might want to admit to seeing these comments and get it out in the open. If you looked without his knowledge then you will have to carefully talk with him about it. I use the philosphy that you should not be doing things you can not tell you partner about because that is a betrayal of their trust. Good luck.