Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

Ok so its summer time right, during the school year i met this girl and we talked for a while then I came across her myspace while on a friends and i messaged her so we sent a few messages back and forth then it kinda abruptly ended and I never really saw her during the year again.All together this was in a 6 month time span--New stuff, just recently I was viewing my friends myspace again and saw her up there now i'm wondering if it would be weird to send her just a mutual message to see how her summer is going or w/e then maybe bring it to if she wants to see a movie sometime or something if she responds. Any advice greatly appriciated!

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

OK . . .LOL . . when I first moved to California 2 1/2 years ago . . .I came here NOT KNOWING ANYONE. I thought I would try connecting to some new people and give MYSPACE a shot.

YOU WILL FIND THIS INTERESTING.

I was interested in knowing --%26gt;%26gt; WHAT WOULD A WOMAN RESPOND TO IN AN E-MESSAGE??. I conducted an experiment %26amp; messaged 50 attractive women on Myspace and said something "NICE".

- " I like your pictures. Where are you from?"

- "You have an interesting way of looking at things. I enjoyed reading your profile"

- "You seem very nice. I would like to know more about you."

NOT ONE / 50 RESPONDED.

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THEN I messaged 50 other attractive women and said something INSULTING. . . . rude . . . cocky . . . arrogant . . . . and I INTENTIONALLY left HUMOR OUT.

- "Wow you're a model. Can't you get a REAL job?"

- "You have lotsa pics in your bathing suit. Can't you afford clothes?"

- "Hey does anyone else know that all the crap you spew about wanting a nice guy is a LIE?? Or is it just me?"

LOL!!!

And EVERY ONE / 50 RESPONDED.

SOME MORE THAN ONCE. While they may have not "liked" what I said . . . thats not the point. THEY RESPONDED. Interesting to know what women actually RESPOND to . . . and thats --%26gt;%26gt; NOT GIVING THEM THE VALIDATION THEY SEEK.

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I quickly got VERY good a communicating through myspace, instant messaging and emails but there was one thing I LEARNED QUICKLY . . . and that is ---%26gt;%26gt; IF YOU WANT A WOMAN TO REPSOND, YOU MUST USE A CLEVER MIX OF HUMOR AND CONFIDENCE.

COCKY + FUNNY is the only way to go!

Cocky WITHOUT FUNNY FAILS EVERY TIME and makes you look like a "d閳ヮ晧k" even though you may not BE.

So . . . . think FIRST . . . . which of THESE messsages would YOU repsond to if you were her???

--%26gt;%26gt; Hi! I spotted you on MySpace and I just wanted to know how your summer was going and maybe see if you might want to see a movie sometime.

(vague and boring)

OR....

---%26gt;%26gt; Would you like to go out with me for a movie sometime?? (ASKing her ANYTHING is a bad idea. Do not put a question mark in there if you can help it because it gives her the chance to say NO. Dont give her that chance too easily!)

OR....

---%26gt;%26gt; When you are up for a good time and some laughs, you should shoot me a message. . . . because if you don't, I will be forced to think that you don't know how to have any FUN. ;)

Understand the difference???

While it may SEEM arrogant . . . it says ALOT. And i KNOW given the choice of the three above . . . she WILL respond to the 3RD example BEFORE any of the others.

It doesn't matter HOW she reacts to it . . .what matters is that she REACTS AT ALL. And THATS WHAT YOU WANT. A RESPONSE. Then you can take it from there.

Keep it LIGHT %26amp; FUN.

Keep it SHORT.

Keep it FUNNY.

And don't sound VAGUE.

:)

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

People on MySpace WANT you to contact them!! Even if it's just like, been thinking about you...do it!

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

Do it! It would be fun if she said yes, and if not then dont worry about it.

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

Same thing happened with me, but I just forgot about it man. Well, I don't know but I really don't think it's a good idea though, but hey if it works it works. Anyhow just talk to her about it and see whats up.

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

IT WOULD BE GREAT, BUT YOU MIGHT DOWNLOAD A TROJAN WITH A PAYLOAD, SO WATCH IT. MYSPACE IS FULL OF VIRUES.

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

don't think jus do it

it helps me through a lot

so don't think about what "might" happen

cuz whatever happens happens

thats life

go for it

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

Go for it. Send her an IM! You know her she knows you. so no biggy. Ask her to the movie once you have started chatting and see how things go.

Good luck. Smiles

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

No i think that'd be fine. I mean since school's out myspace is one of the easiest ways to keep in touch with people. i got my first boyfriend over myspace and that's really weird but just talking to her doesn't even measure up to that. lol

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

i don't think it would be weird to do so!cause from understanding thats were you first saw her and thats what myspace is for to meet and contact people for whatever reason there is.so know i deon't that would be weird!actully a bit charming because that would show you really care since you went looking for her.

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

no its not wierd 2 do that people doit on bebo%26amp;360 all the time

Would it be wierd to contact a girl through myspace?

YES!!!!!!!!!!! its werd to contact any type of people through myspace cause you may never know if they are murders, sex offenders, or drug dealers just looking for kids-adults to do anything..... Do not contact anyone that you do not know unless they go to school with you or there are your friends.